So you’ve finally got that diamond and are ready to start planning your dream wedding! Guest list, Menu choices, The Dress – so many decisions to make! They say that your wedding day should be the happiest of your life, so you want to ensure all goes to plan, in the way you want it to!
I need to pick a Venue!
In 2014, the average cost of a popular venue in the UK came in around £3,400 – and that’s before you’d factored in £2,900 for food, £990 for photography and £690 for entertainment, which already amounts to more than £7,000! Let’s not forget the cost of said dress, the honeymoon, the rings, the suits, bridesmaid dresses, hair, makeup and drinks if you’re feeling particularly generous…you can see why the average UK wedding cost more than £20,000 last year!
Couple this with arguing with your in laws over who does and doesn’t get an invite to the big day and you have the main reasons why in 2012, up to a third of UK weddings took place abroad!
Do you like the sound of jetting off to a gorgeous location to declare your love to your partner? Want to keep the guest list simple and avoid the dreaded conversation with your mum about why your “Aunty” Mary won’t be sat at the top table? See how you feel after reading our 5 Top Tips for planning Destination Weddings!
We compared the cost of a UK wedding to popular Destination Wedding Locations around the world and what we found was pleasantly surprising (and kinder to your bank balance)!
Most locations offer package deals which include many wedding day essentials, even your own wedding planner! These packages may include the officiator, a marriage licence, the venue with decorations, your wedding cake and bridal bouquet, a reception for you and 10 guests, photos and even his and her keepsakes – and wouldn’t you know it, we found a location in The Bahamas that offers all of this for just $1,599! Yep, that’s just over £1,000!
The bulk of your costs arise from your flights and accommodation; again after looking into this, we found that going in February for a 7 night room stay for the Bride and Groom came to a grand total of £4,000..! These prices can vary on locations and time of year obviously and depend on how much the Bride and Groom are willing to put into covering costs for guests. Think about how much more that cost would come down for a similar package in Milan, with flights around £100!
There are a couple of options available to you for this one and it will really depend on personal preference, budget and the size of the gown!
Via Courier to your Venue
Pro: One thing less to carry on the plane!
Con: You can’t be certain that the box will be treated as precious cargo! Plus the constant worry whether it will reach the destination on time.
Hand Luggage on the plane
Pro: You can have it professionally packaged into a specialist box and take as your carry on luggage.
Con: If you don’t have it boxed, you can’t guarantee it can be hung up on the plane, or worse, put into the hold with no extra protection.
Book an additional seat
Pro: The dress is with you at all times!
Con: Risk creasing or damaging the dress through transportation, and could be costly.
Purchase it in your Destination Country
Pro: Not having to worry about transportation costs or mishaps, the dress will be waiting for you.
Con: Only really getting one fitting of the dress and hoping it all comes together on the day (unless you can frequently visit!)
Worrying about your lack of control when organising a Destination Wedding is completely understandable. That’s why you’ll find that many UK Travel Agents, such as Thomas Cook and First Choice, offer Wedding Planning Packages across a wide range of destinations. They can help with everything from choosing your location to adding those finishing touches to make the day extra special. They work in the same way as the Wedding Destination companies themselves and can help source those Free Packages in locations they are available. Hand the reigns over to your dedicated wedding specialist and get to work on that guest list!
Remember that you will need to apply for a marriage licence in most foreign countries, as well as ensuring that your marriage is considered legal. Some countries have minimum residency laws, meaning you need to have stayed in the country for a specific amount of time prior to the wedding (usually 48-72 hours). You may also need to marry in the UK and have a Renewal abroad – again, make sure you have checked these details thoroughly! If in doubt, visit www.gov.uk for full information on UK nationals marrying overseas.
May through to September is wedding season across the board, and also include the school holidays, so expect for prices to be a little higher than the rest of the year. You should also consider whether there are seasonal events at your destination that may effect the amount of visitors to that location. For instance, Spring Break occurs between March and June, so if you would rather not have a bunch of rowdy teens potentially photobomb your weddings shots, it may be best to book at a different time of year! Some resorts may have a “no Spring Breakers” policy, but what’s to say the hotel just down the beach doesn’t?!
Photo Credit: Varin
That’s the great thing about a Destination Wedding – you can choose to extend your stay and incorporate your honeymoon in your own little paradise in Cancún, within the mountains in Greece or atop your castle in Geneva. Just be sure to send the rest of the wedding party home – no one wants to spend their honeymoon with their new in laws no matter how much you get on with them…. do they?!